Mirroring · a CTLZ method

See your own archeology.

Who you are is already there, under years of jobs, titles and stories. Mirroring helps you see it, in your own words.

Five sessions · two to three weeks · on your phone, on your time

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Is this for you?

For you, or for the people you help.

For you

  • You have a solid career and a next move to choose.
  • Your talent could be used better, or seen more.
  • AI is changing your work.

If you help people

  • The people you help are choosing their next move.
  • You want to start from their own words.
  • You want something new, without changing how you work.
What it is

An archeology of yourself.

Mirroring is a method created by Bob Wollheim, after 25 years of helping people see themselves. CTLZ, short for Catalyze, is the company behind it.

Five sessions of guided questions. Your words come back as maps, your Mirror Maps. At the end, they become one book, your Mirror Book. You keep it.

You record→Your maps arrive→You keep your book

It all happens in the private CTLZ app, on your phone or computer. No meetings, no fixed times.

Why it works

Three things happen.

1✦

You speak, alone.

Talking is the most natural way to say what you think and feel. The words come out before you fix them. And no one is listening, so there is no one to please.

…the last session, recorded alone.

“One thing is when you think it… another thing is when you say it, it takes shape.”

from a real Mirroring

2●

You receive only you.

Every word on your maps is a word you said. On your maps there is no:

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…the maps, read for the first time.

“I think it’s very true, very precise, correct… with a harder look at myself, a demanding look.”

from a real Mirroring

3■

You look at yourself.

Your maps arrive a few days later. You read them alone. No one tells you anything. You see what is real and what is only a story. What is there, and what is missing.

…the sessions, answered with some anxiety at first.

“I realized I need to digest, you left a few days… because when that happens, the insights show up between the sessions.”

from a real Mirroring

That is the archeology. You see it yourself.

Every quote here is from a real Mirroring. We keep the names private.

Begin

Mirroring is for seeing.

What you do with what you see is up to you. A CTLZer helps with what comes next: a coach, mentor or consultant trained in Mirroring, who starts with you and is there when you finish.

For you

Choose your CTLZer, or talk with Bob first. Already have a coach or mentor? Send them this page.

If you help people

Use Mirroring with the people you help. You learn things about them that years of talking may not have shown you. You keep how you work, and you earn from every Mirroring.

Read how Mirroring began →

Mirroring is not therapy. If you need a different kind of help, your CTLZer will tell you.

How it's done

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